THE STRENGTH TO THRIVE

in life, love, loss & divorce

Are You Stuck in Confusion About Your Relationship?

Get Out of Confusion and into Clarity—BEFORE You Decide What’s Next.

You’ve always been the strong one—the one who makes things happen, who’s confident in every other area of life. But when it comes to your relationship, you feel completely stuck.

Maybe you’re questioning whether you’re in the right relationship at all.

Or maybe you’ve already checked out emotionally, but you’re paralyzed by fear of what taking the next step might mean.

The constant swirl of doubt, guilt, and uncertainty is exhausting, and you don’t know how much longer you can live in this limbo.

Let’s be honest—there are real fears holding you back.

Fears like:

  • Losing precious time with your kids.

  • Being the one who “breaks up the family” and carrying the guilt of that decision.

  • Worrying about what others will think—your family, your friends, your community.

  • The terrifying thought of being alone forever or never finding love again.

  • Wondering if you’ll be able to financially support yourself or manage life on your own.

These fears are valid. They’re big, heavy, and overwhelming. But staying stuck in this fog of confusion doesn’t make them go away—it just keeps you in the same cycle of doubt, guilt, and frustration.

This is why you are here.

My sole purpose role is to help you get out of the fog of uncertainty and into real, grounded clarity.

To help you understand exactly where your relationship stands, what’s working, what’s not, and where you stand in it—so you can make decisions that come from a place of confidence, not fear.

Because the hardest part isn’t the decision itself—it’s knowing if you’re ready to make it.

It’s figuring out whether you’re holding on out of hope or habit, and whether the life you’re imagining outside this relationship is worth the leap.

Clarity changes everything. It allows you to see your relationship for what it truly is—not through the lens of fear or guilt, but through the lens of truth. From that place, you can decide what’s next.

Whether you choose to stay and rebuild or take the steps toward leaving, you don’t have to figure this out alone. I’m here to help you get to the other side of confusion and into the clarity you need to move forward with confidence and peace.

This is your life, and it’s too important to live the rest of it stuck in doubt.

Hi, I’m Cindy Stibbard.

I’m a Certified Relationship & Divorce Coach who has been trained and mentored by some of the best relationship experts in the world: The Gottman Institute, Thais Gibson of Personal Development School, Terri Cole, Bill Doherty, Marisa Peer…to name a few.

I help people like you step out of the shadows of fear, uncertainty, grief, heartbreak and stuckness to design a vision and a plan for the life and relationship you want to have.

Whether you’re stuck in uncertainty thinking about divorce, navigating the crushing pain of a breakup or marriage breakdown, trying to understand and the divorce process itself to know what to do, struggling to cope with life after the loss of a partner, or trying to redesign a new relationship with your current spouse to avoid divorce, you have come to the right place.

I redesigned my own life and harnessed my strength to rebuild a life on my own as a single mother after massive devastation, not once but twice.

And I am here to show you that with the right support, guidance and tools, you can do the same.

You may feel like you are living in a constant fog of confusion and uncertainty in so many ways right now, and you are, but this is just beginning for you my friend, and I’m going to help open your eyes to what beauty lies ahead for you.

If you have ever wondered;

“Should I stay or should I go…

Then you have come to the right place.

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Why Coaching with Me is Different:

Unlike your therapist, you can access me at ANY TIME during our time together. Can you text your therapist when you need them and have them support you in the moment? I doubt it. But that’s level of support I am provide for you.

The real work and the actual need for support happens in between sessions. So, that’s exactly what you get when you work with me.

It’s about coaching you through tough times in your life now—as they happen— from trying times in your relationship, to how you make decisions, to how you show up in your daily life.

I don’t just talk about transformation—I live it, and I help you learn how to do the same.

Our time together is all access to me, direct, compassionate, and filled with deep insight that gets to the root of where you feel stuck. This is a space for REAL GROWTH. I’m here to help you face the tough questions, to hold you accountable, and to give you real effective tools to stop letting your subconscious fears and beliefs from sabotaging your happiness.

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On the other side of whatever choice you make - whether you choose to stay and work on breathing life back into your marriage or relationship or you decide to prepare for a compassionate ending - you have an incredible opportunity for transformation RIGHT HERE. This is the exact change your life needs.

NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS...

My entire mission is...

to teach you how to tap into your inner strength, pivot your pain into purpose, divorce the dysfunction and not your partner -- to not only survive the most challenging times in your life and relationship but THRIVE because of them.

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It is my true honour to be your guide...

and share with you the expertise I have gained over the years helping hundreds of individuals like you find the strength to thrive in life, love, loss and divorce.