Hi, I'm Cindy Stibbard

A CERTIFIED LIFE, LOVE & LOSS COACH

EMPOWERING YOU WITH THE STRENGTH TO THRIVE IN LIFE, LOVE, LOSS AND DIVORCE

YOUR RELATIONSHIPS ARE CONSTANTLY EVOLVING AND SHOULD BE

just like you

A previous version of you chose this relationship—but maybe it has stopped serving you and who you’ve become. Now you are wondering if you are facing the reality of making the difficult decision to stay and give it one last shot at repair or prepare to go—and how to even know what comes next. You are not alone.

Why Work with Me?

I’m Cindy Stibbard—a Certified Relationship & Divorce Coach and the woman you call when you’re quietly unravelling in a relationship that looks fine on the outside but feels like dying a slow death on the inside.

I help high-functioning, heart-exhausted women find the courage, clarity, and strategy to either love or leave their relationships—with zero judgment and full alignment.

But before I became the coach I am today, I was her—the woman who had everything she thought she wanted.


A beautiful home. A picture-perfect family. A life that looked good on paper.

And yet… I was numb. Disconnected from my body. Emotionally starved.


Silently suffering for five years in indecision at the end of my marriage that left me questioning everything. Why couldn’t I feel joy anymore? Why don’t I want this?


Why did I feel unseen and unheard—even when I was doing everything “right”?
Why was I resenting the very life I always thought I wanted and now had?

The truth?


I had abandoned myself. I stayed quiet. I overfunctioned. I people-pleased. I dismissed my own needs for the sake of my marriage. I lost who I was.


And while the world saw a smiling woman holding it all together, inside I was slowly dying—drowning in confusion, shame, and the fear of making the wrong decision.

So I created what I wished existed when I was lost in that hell of uncertainty:
Real, raw, human support. Without judgment. Without fluff.

And with the strategy, emotional safety, and truth-telling that actually moves the needle.

Now, I guide other women through the very journey I walked. I help them separate fear from truth, ego from intuition, and guilt from desire. I don’t believe in “staying” or “leaving” as the goal—I believe in helping you come back home to yourself so you can make the right decision for you, and finally live in peace with it.

If you’re stuck in that terrifying in-between where nothing feels quite right, but the thought of change feels impossible…

I see you. I was you. And I know the way out.

  • CDC® Certified Divorce Coach

  • Doherty Institute Discernment Coach

  • Trained in Affairs & Betrayal (The Gottman Institute)

  • Certified Somatic EMDR Facilitator (The Embody Lab)

  • Post-Baccalaureate Degree in Psychology & Human Behaviour (SFU)

  • Certified Divorce Specialist

  • Chartered Career Coach

  • B.A. in Psychology (SFU)

  • B.Ed in Teaching & International Studies (SFU)

  • Certified in Integrated Attachment Theory (IAT)

  • Certified in Applied Hypnotherapy (*in training with Marisa Peer)

  • Studied and trained under world-renowned experts such as Bill Doherty, The Gottman Institute, Dr. Scott Lyons, Thais Gibson, Terri Cole & Marisa Peer

  • 26 years of teaching/coaching experience

MY CREDENTIALS 

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HEARTBREAK & LOSS

What if, instead of feeling trapped in the sadness, anger, and overwhelm of your breakup, divorce, or partner loss, you could learn to embrace the pain, heal deeply, and rebuild a life filled with meaning and purpose? What if the very grief you're carrying could become the catalyst for your transformation?

LOVE

What if you could finally break free from the toxic patterns, unfulfilling relationships, or betrayal that’s been holding you back—releasing old habits, reigniting your self-worth, and stepping into the healthy, fulfilling love you truly deserve?

LIFE

What if the joy, love, and self-worth you’ve been searching for were within reach, and all it took was learning how to unlock them? Are you ready to break free from the uncertainty and finally create the version of yourself you’ve always dreamed of becoming?